{"id":1289,"date":"2018-05-14T05:22:33","date_gmt":"2018-05-14T05:22:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=1289"},"modified":"2019-03-12T06:10:09","modified_gmt":"2019-03-12T06:10:09","slug":"femeia-broasca-testoasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=1289","title":{"rendered":"Femeia broasc\u0103 \u021bestoas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/testoasa-260x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"260\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1290\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/testoasa-260x300.jpg 260w, https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/testoasa.jpg 554w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 260px) 100vw, 260px\" \/>A trecut bini\u0219or peste treizeci de ani \u0219i sup\u0103r\u0103ri de tot felul, tragedii mai mici sau mai mari au obligat-o s\u0103-\u0219i croiasc\u0103 o carapace de protec\u021bie care, la \u00eenceput, a sc\u0103pat-o de rele, pe urm\u0103, din cauza lentorii pe care i-a impus-o, din cauza r\u0103celii, a durit\u0103\u021bii, a \u00eenceput s\u0103-i \u00eendep\u0103rteze pe to\u021bi de ea.<br \/>\n\u021aine carapacea asta oamenii departe, s-a transformat de multe ori \u00een prea multe kilograme \u00een plus, dar mai ales \u00eentr-un scut comportamental vizibil, prin care nu mai po\u021bi s\u0103 ajungi la sufletul ei \u0219i nici sufletul ei, oric\u00e2t de mare ar fi, nu mai poate fi perceput de afar\u0103.<br \/>\n\u00cenot\u00e2nd ea singur\u0103 prin apele vie\u021bii, la un moment dat femeia broasc\u0103 \u021bestoas\u0103 realizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eenoat\u0103 singur\u0103, c\u0103 nu mai are cu cine s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103, c\u0103 nu are copii de crescut, c\u0103 nici p\u0103rin\u021bii nu o mai doresc \u00een apropiere. Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 \u00een apele tot mai reci ale vie\u021bii nici umbrele mari ale rechinilor nu se reped la ea \u0219i este protejat\u0103 astfel de pericole, dar via\u021ba o \u00eempinge c\u0103tre ape tot mai reci \u0219i sufer\u0103, iar micii parazi\u021bi se strecoar\u0103 sub carapace sub forma micilor \u0219icane f\u0103cute de cei care se lovesc de ea \u0219i totul \u00eencepe s\u0103 o m\u0103n\u00e2nce, s\u0103 o doar\u0103.<br \/>\n\u0218i atunci femeia care de mul\u021bi ani s-a transformat \u00een \u021bestoas\u0103 devine uricioas\u0103, nici nu a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce vor ceilal\u021bi de fapt de la ea \u0219i mu\u0219c\u0103 \u00een st\u00e2nga \u0219i \u00een dreapta, chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd inten\u021bia este de a-i oferi o frunz\u0103 de salat\u0103.<br \/>\nUneori se pl\u00e2nge de situa\u021bia ei, dar ceilal\u021bi nu prea o aud de dincolo de carapace. Alteori are c\u00e2te un impuls \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 se apropie de ceilal\u021bi, dar mai degrab\u0103 \u00eei sperie.<br \/>\n\u00cenot\u00e2nd ea c\u0103tre o \u021bint\u0103 neclar\u0103, se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 fie luat\u0103 pe sus, \u00eempreun\u0103 cu altele, de c\u00e2te un curent cald declan\u0219at de str\u0103lucitorul delfin albastru. Pare un zeu delfinul \u0219i, chiar dac\u0103 el \u00ee\u0219i vede de drum \u0219i o ignor\u0103, femeia broasc\u0103 \u021bestoas\u0103 \u00eencepe \u0219i \u00eenoat\u0103 disperat\u0103 \u00een urma lui, ajung\u00e2nd s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 este vorba de o poveste de dragoste. Uneori po\u021bi s\u0103-i spui curentului \u0219coal\u0103 de evolu\u021bie spiritual\u0103, alteori \u0219coal\u0103 motiva\u021bional\u0103, pune acolo ce crezi c\u0103 i se potrive\u0219te mai bine&#8230;<br \/>\nPrimul ei g\u00e2nd este s\u0103 le pocneasc\u0103 pe celelalte \u021bestoase atrase \u0219i ele de curentul cald \u0219i, c\u00e2nd ajung mai multe la un loc, dac\u0103 \u00eenchizi ochii auzi cum se ciocnesc carapacele lor. Unele \u00ee\u0219i dau seama c\u0103 lupta cu celelalte este inutil\u0103 \u0219i nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 le \u021bin\u0103 pe loc, iar solu\u021bia de a atinge pentru o clip\u0103 delfinul este s\u0103 \u00eenoate c\u00e2t mai repede. Altele r\u0103m\u00e2n acolo \u0219i declar\u0103 c\u0103 lupta este menirea lor&#8230;<br \/>\n\u0218i, uneori, c\u00e2nd apa este deja prea cald\u0103, sau c\u00e2nd se uit\u0103 \u00een oglind\u0103 \u0219i vede pentru prima dat\u0103 limpede cum arat\u0103, femeia broasc\u0103 \u021bestoas\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103 la carapacea ei \u0219i \u021b\u00e2\u0219ne\u0219te \u00eenainte, mai vulnerabil\u0103 dec\u00e2t orice alt\u0103 vietate obi\u0219nuit\u0103 s\u0103 rela\u021bioneze direct cu mediul, nu din spatele carapacei protectoare. Marii pr\u0103d\u0103tori stau pe acolo \u0219i le pap\u0103 la micul dejun d\u00e2ndu-se drept delfini alba\u0219tri. Chiar dac\u0103 nu p\u0103\u021besc asta, ajunse pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 delfinul albastru se trezesc respinse ca fiind ele din alt\u0103 specie \u0219i, r\u0103mase nedumerite \u00een jur, sunt ajunse din urm\u0103 de \u021bestoasele netrezite la via\u021b\u0103 care au grij\u0103 s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune pe ele pentru c\u0103 au fost, m\u0103car pentru o clip\u0103, altfel.<br \/>\nNici nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 merit\u0103 sau nu s\u0103 renun\u021be la carapacea lor dup\u0103 ce \u0219i-au pus-o pe ele, \u0219tiu doar c\u0103 femeia de treizeci \u0219i ceva de ani ar fi bine s\u0103 nu \u0219i-o pun\u0103 de la bun \u00eenceput, s\u0103-\u0219i p\u0103streze deschiderea c\u0103tre via\u021b\u0103, vulnerabilitatea \u00een fa\u021ba vie\u021bii, \u00eendem\u00e2narea de a negocia cu via\u021ba \u0219i cu semenii. Carapacea poate p\u0103rea o solu\u021bie, dar este, de fapt, o capcan\u0103&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Photo credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/neilmoralee\/10980972865\" target=\"new\">Neil. 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