{"id":1941,"date":"2021-02-25T13:56:54","date_gmt":"2021-02-25T13:56:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=1941"},"modified":"2021-11-18T06:11:29","modified_gmt":"2021-11-18T06:11:29","slug":"nuante-in-interpretarea-parametrilor-unei-relatii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=1941","title":{"rendered":"Nuan\u021be \u00een interpretarea parametrilor unei rela\u021bii"},"content":{"rendered":"

De obicei, interpretarea parametrilor unei rela\u021bii, fie ea ori \u00eentre doi oameni, ori \u00eentre un om \u0219i un grup de oameni (firm\u0103, institu\u021bie, echip\u0103 sportiv\u0103 etc.) se limiteaz\u0103 la cele c\u00e2teva valori legate de lec\u021biile care au mai r\u0103mas de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat pe fizic, emo\u021bional, mental \u0219i spiritual.
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\u0218i se vede din tabel cum stau cei doi pe toate planurile, unde colaboreaz\u0103 \u0219i unde nu prea, dac\u0103 mai au suficient\u0103 energie sau au ajuns la fundul sacului.<\/p>\n

Doar c\u0103, mai ales \u00eentr-un cuplu t\u00e2n\u0103r, au sau nu au de spus c\u00e2te ceva \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bii, socrii \u0219i soacrele. Iar infuen\u021ba acestora, mai ales pe la noi, unde tineriii nu sunt din prima pe picioarele lor, este \u00eenc\u0103 foarte mare \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 \u021binem cont de ea, pentru c\u0103 am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cupluri \u00een care to\u021bi parametrii de mai sus erau \u00een perfect echilibru \u0219i c\u0103rora nu le ie\u0219ea mai nimic \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 nu ap\u0103rea parametrul \u201esoacr\u0103, soacr\u0103, poam\u0103 acr\u0103\u201c \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Rela\u021bia cu p\u0103rin\u021bii depinde mai ales de karma de neam, a\u0219a c\u0103 am \u00eenceput s\u0103 compar valorile\/notele legate de cele cinci lec\u021bii majore, s\u0103 nu ucizi, s\u0103 nu min\u021bi, s\u0103 nu furi, s\u0103 nu faci abuz de materie, s\u0103 nu faci abuz de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n
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Dac\u0103 valorile din primul set\u00a0(UMF) sunt asem\u0103n\u0103toare, atunci karma de neam se manifest\u0103, iar p\u0103rin\u021bii au multe de spus apropo de modul \u00een care cuplul rela\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu cei din jurul lor. Cumva, p\u0103rin\u021bii se ocup\u0103 de \u201epolitica extern\u0103\u201c a cuplului. Dac\u0103 nu vor s\u0103 asculte de p\u0103rin\u021bi, cei doi \u0219i-o iau, a\u0219a c\u0103 singura solu\u021bie este s\u0103-i conving\u0103 pe ace\u0219tia, nu s\u0103-i ignore. Altfel spus, cei doi nu-\u0219i cump\u0103r\u0103 cas\u0103, ma\u0219in\u0103, nu pornesc \u00een excursii, nu se mut\u0103 \u00een alt\u0103 localitate \u0219i nu-\u0219i schimb\u0103 locul de munc\u0103 dec\u00e2t dup\u0103 ce-\u0219i consult\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 valorile din al doilea set (HS) sunt asem\u0103n\u0103toare, atunci karma de neam se manifest\u0103 legat de via\u021ba intim\u0103, de via\u021ba de cuplu. Cumva, p\u0103rin\u021bii se ocup\u0103 de \u201epolitica intern\u0103\u201c. Altfel spus, cei doi m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103, beau, fac copii cu aprobare de la p\u0103rin\u021bi…<\/p>\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 \u00een interpret\u0103rile pe care le face\u021bi\u00a0 pute\u021bi s\u0103 \u021bine\u021bi cont \u0219i de ace\u0219ti parametri, pentru a stabili rela\u021bia cuplului cu p\u0103rin\u021bii.<\/p>\n

Iar dac\u0103 subiectul rela\u021bii v\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 mai mult, v\u0103 propun o carte pe care am scris-o pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103 delicat\u0103:<\/p>\n

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