{"id":216,"date":"2017-07-15T07:24:25","date_gmt":"2017-07-15T07:24:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=216"},"modified":"2017-08-15T07:25:24","modified_gmt":"2017-08-15T07:25:24","slug":"vremea-compasiunii-vremea-iertarii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=216","title":{"rendered":"Vremea compasiunii, vremea iert\u0103rii"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/stock-photography-mother-asks-forgiveness-teen-daughter-image28687752#res6218787\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/thumbs.dreamstime.com\/l\/mother-asks-forgiveness-teen-daughter-28687752.jpg\" alt=\"Mother asks for forgiveness from teen daughter\" border=\"0\"><\/a><br \/><strong>\u00a9 Photographer: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/jackf_info\">Iakov Filimonov<\/a> | Agency: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/\">Dreamstime.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-un oarecare loc, particip\u00e2nd la un anume eveniment, te afli \u00een preajma unor persoane. Ca \u0219i tine, aflate \u0219i ele \u00een c\u0103utarea fericirii, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 evite durerea, av\u00e2nd nevoile mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin satisf\u0103cute \u0219i, la fel de important, fiind mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin con\u0219tiente de toate acestea.<br \/>\nIndiferent dac\u0103 ele \u00ee\u021bi fac r\u0103u sau nu, fiind c\u00e2t mai prezent, l\u0103s\u00e2nd empatia s\u0103 func\u021bioneze, rezonezi cu nevoile celorlal\u021bi, le \u00een\u021belegi \u0219i chiar le anticipezi ac\u021biunile \u2013 unele chiar defavorabile \u021bie. Calitatea ac\u021biunii (sau a non-ac\u021biunii) care urmeaz\u0103 face diferen\u021ba.<!--more--><br \/>\nPo\u021bi \u00eencremeni de spaim\u0103, de durere, de ur\u0103, de mil\u0103, sau po\u021bi fugi de fric\u0103, de sc\u00e2rb\u0103, de neputin\u021b\u0103, sim\u021bind totul, dar nef\u0103c\u00e2nd nimic, l\u0103s\u00e2nd doar ca energia acelui moment s\u0103 se stocheze undeva prin corpurile tale, bloc\u00e2ndu-\u021bi, \u00een timp, metabolismul.<br \/>\nSau po\u021bi face pasul c\u0103tre compasiune, adic\u0103 s\u0103 treci dincolo de empatie, de sim\u021bire, la ac\u021biune, la \u00eel \u00een\u021beleg pe cel\u0103lalt \u0219i ac\u021bionez cu bun\u0103 inten\u021bie ca el s\u0103 scape de suferin\u021b\u0103, s\u0103-\u0219i g\u0103seasc\u0103 fericirea, f\u0103r\u0103 ca asta s\u0103 m\u0103 afecteze pe mine. Compasiune nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 pleci capul, \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 faci totul ca lucrurile s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare corect. Manifestare a compasiunii este \u0219i condamnarea la timpul potrivit a celui care a gre\u0219it, pentru ca el s\u0103 con\u0219tientizeze \u0219i s\u0103 nu treac\u0103 la gesturi \u0219i mai reprobabile.<br \/>\nCompasiunea trebuie antrenat\u0103, pentru c\u0103, de\u0219i \u00eel sim\u021bi pe cel\u0103lalt, de\u0219i, adeseori, \u0219tii cum s\u0103 ac\u021bionezi, nu ai suficiente resurse pentru a o face. Poate \u0219i unde \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belegem cu adev\u0103rat c\u0103 facem parte dintr-un \u00centreg \u0219i ac\u021biunea asupra celuilalt este \u0219i ac\u021biune asupra mea.<br \/>\nA fost vremea compasiunii \u0219i&#8230; nu am ac\u021bionat. Sau am fost cople\u0219it de r\u0103ul pe care cel\u0103lalt mi-l provoca. Sau nici nu am \u00een\u021beles exact ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<br \/>\nA sosit vremea iert\u0103rii!<br \/>\nTrebuie s\u0103 povestesc prin ceea ce am trecut, mie \u0219i celorlal\u021bi, pentru a cunoa\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat ce a fost acolo. Asta presupune mult curaj \u0219i mult\u0103 sinceritate.<br \/>\nTrebuie s\u0103 identific corect \u0219i r\u0103nile produse, cele pe care, de cele mai multe ori, le-am ascuns at\u00e2t de bine \u00eenc\u00e2t nici nu mai \u0219tiu de ele, de\u0219i \u00eemi rod corpul.<br \/>\nDe abia pe urm\u0103 pot s\u0103 iert \u0219i s\u0103 decid dac\u0103 o s\u0103 continui sau nu rela\u021bia cu cel\u0103lalt.<br \/>\nEste o vreme a compasiunii \u0219i, uneori, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu ne trezim suficient, pierdem momentul.<br \/>\nVine apoi o vreme a iert\u0103rii. Pentru iertare avem la dispozi\u021bie toat\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103, este timp destul, doar s\u0103 ne dorim s\u0103 facem asta!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a9 Photographer: Iakov Filimonov | Agency: Dreamstime.com \u00centr-un oarecare loc, particip\u00e2nd la un anume eveniment, te afli \u00een preajma unor persoane. 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