{"id":237,"date":"2017-08-17T04:38:46","date_gmt":"2017-08-17T04:38:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=237"},"modified":"2018-02-25T10:17:20","modified_gmt":"2018-02-25T10:17:20","slug":"cartea-bautura-tigarile-femeia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=237","title":{"rendered":"Cartea, b\u0103utura, \u021big\u0103rile, femeia&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/royalty-free-stock-images-young-couple-enjoying-picnic-beach-image17022059#res6218787\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/thumbs.dreamstime.com\/l\/young-couple-enjoying-picnic-beach-17022059.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple enjoying  picnic on the beach\" border=\"0\"><\/a><br \/><strong>\u00a9 Photographer: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/.shock_info\">.shock<\/a> | Agency: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/\">Dreamstime.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fiecare \u00een parte, sau toate \u00eempreun\u0103, creeaz\u0103 pl\u0103cere, dau dependen\u0163\u0103, se v\u00e2nd \u015fi, \u00eentr-un fel sau \u00een altul, au nevoie de reclam\u0103. O pl\u0103cere a cunoa\u015fterii.<br \/>\nDac\u0103 nu ar fi a\u015fa, ne-am opri la prima femeie, am fuma \u015fi am goli o sticl\u0103 o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi am p\u0103stra o singur\u0103 carte pe raft. Dar o alt\u0103 femeie \u00eenseamn\u0103 un alt univers, pentru sim\u0163uri \u015fi pentru pl\u0103cerea conversa\u0163iei. O alt\u0103 \u0163igar\u0103 elimin\u0103 starea de nelini\u015fte a m\u00e2inilor cu care nu mai \u015ftii ce s\u0103 faci. Un alt pahar te introduce \u00een universul \u015famanului de cartier \u015fi alung\u0103 g\u00e2ndurile negre.<!--more--><br \/>\nO alt\u0103 carte modeleaz\u0103 toate pl\u0103cerile amintite mai \u00eenainte, plus multe altele, p\u0103c\u0103toase sau sfinte, \u015fi-\u0163i permite s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti o alt\u0103 via\u0163\u0103. Fiecare carte este \u00eenc\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 \u00eentr-o lume paralel\u0103, \u00een care e\u015fti mai bogat, mai permeabil pentru sentimente \u015fi, mai ales, mult mai inteligent. Cum s\u0103 nu devii dependent de toate aceste pl\u0103ceri? Ele dispar treptat, dar amintirea lor este resuscitat\u0103 de relatarea evenimentului tr\u0103it, de analiza f\u0103cut\u0103 \u00een forul interior sau \u00een fa\u0163a prietenilor, nici una dintre ipostaze nefiind mai sincer\u0103, pentru c\u0103 reu\u015fim s\u0103 ne l\u0103ud\u0103m \u015fi \u00een fa\u0163a celorlal\u0163i, dar \u015fi pentru amorul propriu. Iar pove\u015ftile tr\u0103ite l\u00e2ng\u0103 o femeie, abuzurile cu paharul \u015fi \u0163igara \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, c\u0103r\u0163ile mestecate at\u00e2t c\u00e2t ne permite inteligen\u0163a, se transform\u0103 \u00een imboldul de a o lua de la cap\u0103t sau, pentru unii, \u00een c\u0103r\u0163i scrise pentru p\u0103strarea \u015fi r\u0103sp\u00e2ndirea pl\u0103cerii tr\u0103ite c\u00e2ndva.<br \/>\nCulmea este c\u0103, dac\u0103 totul ajunge s\u0103 se transforme \u00een istorie, \u00een fic\u0163iune, \u00een carte, cel mai u\u015for scapi de dependen\u0163a fa\u0163\u0103 de c\u0103r\u0163i.<br \/>\nPentru femei, \u0163ig\u0103ri \u015fi alcool este nevoie de tratament specializat, spiritual sau medical, de eforturi din partea ta \u015fi a celor din jur.<br \/>\nPentru c\u0103r\u0163i este mult mai simplu. O \u00eenchizi pe aceea pe care o \u0163ii \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, o la\u015fi undeva prin cas\u0103, la \u00eent\u00e2mplare, o folose\u015fti ca obiect paralelipipedic, dur, ca suport pentru obiecte \u015fi, dac\u0103 \u201enu ai timp\u201c, dependen\u0163a dispare \u00eencet, f\u0103r\u0103 dureri.<br \/>\nAtunci, de ce se face at\u00e2ta reclam\u0103 \u201eproduselor\u201c de care, oricum, nu scapi dec\u00e2t cu eforturi de voin\u0163\u0103, panouri enorme, clip-uri video, pagini \u00eentregi prin tabloide, iar c\u0103r\u0163ile sunt l\u0103sate s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la consumatori f\u0103r\u0103 presiunea campaniilor de publicitate? Iar atunci c\u00e2nd se face reclam\u0103, dintr-o pudibonderie de care nu d\u0103m dovad\u0103 \u00een alte situa\u0163ii, se vorbe\u015fte de orice altceva, numai de \u201epl\u0103cere\u201c nu? \u00cenc\u0103 n-am v\u0103zut reclama \u00een care o carte s\u0103 te ademeneasc\u0103, s\u0103 te ame\u0163easc\u0103. Doar cuvinte banale despre c\u00e2t de important este autorul, subiectul \u015fi, mai ales, cel care scrie despre carte. Am primit, de la domni\u015foare cu fusti\u0163e scurte, \u00een timp ce beam \u00eentr-un bar, un pachet de \u0163ig\u0103ri din partea firmei, pentru c\u0103 fumam \u0163ig\u0103rile c\u0103rora le f\u0103cea reclam\u0103. N-am primit niciodat\u0103 o carte pentru c\u0103 citeam o alta, a aceluia\u015fi autor, sau ap\u0103rut\u0103 la o aceea\u015fi editur\u0103. V\u0103 rog s\u0103 reconsidera\u0163i aceast\u0103 pl\u0103cere, acest drog legal, acest derapaj de la comportamentul banal-eficient care ne este permis la orice v\u00e2rst\u0103!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a9 Photographer: .shock | Agency: Dreamstime.com Fiecare \u00een parte, sau toate \u00eempreun\u0103, creeaz\u0103 pl\u0103cere, dau dependen\u0163\u0103, se v\u00e2nd \u015fi, \u00eentr-un fel sau \u00een altul, au [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[14],"class_list":["post-237","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-idei","has_thumb"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9kw6W-3P","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=237"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":252,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237\/revisions\/252"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}