{"id":2554,"date":"2024-03-10T09:39:00","date_gmt":"2024-03-10T09:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=2554"},"modified":"2024-03-13T09:42:47","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T09:42:47","slug":"vai-de-numele-meu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=2554","title":{"rendered":"Vai de numele meu :)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ast\u0103zi, la destul de mult timp de la apari\u021bia c\u0103r\u021bii <em>Arta desp\u0103r\u021birii. Arta \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103rii<\/em>, confruntat cu situa\u021bia real\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 a unei prietene, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 nu am tratat un subiect important: ce facem cu numele dup\u0103 divor\u021b?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu exist\u0103 copii, firesc este ca fiecare s\u0103-\u0219i ia din nou numele avut \u00eenainte de c\u0103s\u0103torie. \u00cen acest fel ei anun\u021b\u0103 universul c\u0103 vor s\u0103 mearg\u0103 mai departe, c\u0103 se desprind de trecut cu sufletul \u00eemp\u0103cat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 exist\u0103 copii, cred eu c\u0103 v\u00e2rsta p\u0103rin\u021bilor conteaz\u0103 mult. Dac\u0103 vorbim de oameni tineri, care vor intra \u00een mod firesc \u00eentr-o nou\u0103 rela\u021bie, p\u0103strarea numelui fostului partener ar fi un obstacol, chiar dac\u0103, o vreme, p\u0103strarea numelui va evita apari\u021bia \u00eentreb\u0103rilor din partea colegilor \u0219i a profesorilor copilului \u0219i vor fi evitate situa\u021biile jenante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar doi oameni tineri au toate \u0219ansele s\u0103 intre \u00eentr-o nou\u0103 rela\u021bie de lung\u0103 durat\u0103, \u00een mod firesc vor trece la un alt nume, iar atunci va fi absolut firesc ca mama (mai ales doamnele au problema numelui) s\u0103 aib\u0103 numele viitorului so\u021b, nu al fostului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021birea are loc la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 mai avansat\u0103 \u0219i copiii sunt mari, la casele lor, cum se spune, p\u0103strarea numelui devine o solu\u021bie ceva mai comod\u0103, pentru c\u0103 numele este deja cunoscut \u00een mediul profesional, exist\u0103 o lung\u0103 istorie a actelor semnate cu el, a c\u0103r\u021bilor semnate, a diplomelor ob\u021binute. Asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 de la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00eencolo oamenii nu se pot g\u00e2ndi la refacerea vie\u021bii, dar maturitatea face mai u\u0219or de \u00een\u021beles pentru viitorul iubit p\u0103strarea numelui unui fost partener de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Desigur, mai sunt \u0219i cei care de la bun \u00eenceput \u0219i-au p\u0103strat \u0219i numele lor, dar au preluat \u0219i numele partenerului, numele alea cu \u201eminus\u201c \u00eentre ele \ud83d\ude42 Dar \u0103sta pare a fi un subiect de discutat alt\u0103 dat\u0103, el nu este important doar \u00een contextul desp\u0103r\u021birii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meditative.arts.ro\/wordpress\/produs\/arta-despartirii-arta-impacarii\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Arta-despartirii_arta-impacarii.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2555\" width=\"304\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Arta-despartirii_arta-impacarii.jpg 591w, https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Arta-despartirii_arta-impacarii-195x300.jpg 195w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 304px) 100vw, 304px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ast\u0103zi, la destul de mult timp de la apari\u021bia c\u0103r\u021bii Arta desp\u0103r\u021birii. Arta \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103rii, confruntat cu situa\u021bia real\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 a unei prietene, mi-am dat [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2555,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2554","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spiritual","has_thumb"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Arta-despartirii_arta-impacarii.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9kw6W-Fc","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2554","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2554"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2554\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2557,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2554\/revisions\/2557"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2554"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2554"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2554"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}