{"id":276,"date":"2017-08-24T03:00:38","date_gmt":"2017-08-24T03:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=276"},"modified":"2018-03-24T06:22:15","modified_gmt":"2018-03-24T06:22:15","slug":"daca-inca-nu-ai-reusit-sa-nu-ai-dusmani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=276","title":{"rendered":"Dac\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu ai reu\u0219it&#8230; s\u0103 nu ai du\u0219mani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/stock-photo-angry-kid-girl-showing-hand-signaling-to-stop-useful-campaign-against-violence-pain-dark-background-closeup-portrait-image51076543#res3397181\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/thumbs.dreamstime.com\/l\/angry-kid-girl-showing-hand-signaling-to-stop-useful-campaign-against-violence-pain-dark-background-closeup-portrait-51076543.jpg\" alt=\"Angry kid girl showing hand signaling to stop\" border=\"0\"><\/a><br \/><strong>\u00a9 Photographer: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/nastia1983_info\">Nastia1983<\/a> | Agency: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dreamstime.com\/\">Dreamstime.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sunt persoane pe care, dac\u0103 le vezi, sau doar auzi vorbindu-se despre ele, \u021bi se urc\u0103 s\u00e2ngele \u00een cap. \u0218i dac\u0103 se uit\u0103 cineva la tine altfel dec\u00e2t \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea, \u0219i dac\u0103 te atinge inten\u021bionat sau nu, \u0219i dac\u0103 pare s\u0103 spun\u0103 ceva r\u0103u despre tine, te repezi ca un uragan, arunci cuvinte grele \u0219i pleci tr\u00e2ntind u\u0219a.<br \/>\n\u0218i afli mai tot timpul c\u0103 \u0103la a spus nu \u0219tiu ce despre tine, c\u0103 altul te-a dat \u00een judecat\u0103, c\u0103 un coleg sau o rud\u0103 le spune tuturor c\u0103 nu vrea s\u0103 mai vorbeasc\u0103 cu tine, c\u0103 nici nu vrea s\u0103 mai aud\u0103 de tine.<!--more--><br \/>\nMereu ai c\u00e2te un du\u0219man, mereu cineva te atac\u0103. Trebuie s\u0103 fii vigilent. \u0218i atent p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i cu ghivecele de flori care par \u0219i ele s\u0103 te v\u00e2neze. Cu b\u0103l\u021bile prin care ma\u0219inile trec exact \u00een momentul potrivit ca s\u0103 te ude din cap p\u00e2n\u0103-n picioare. Cu v\u00e2nz\u0103torii care \u021bie \u00ee\u021bi aleg marfa cea mai proast\u0103, pe tine te fur\u0103 la rest, \u021bie nu-\u021bi dau informa\u021biile de care ai nevoie.<br \/>\n\u0218i \u00eei invidiezi pe cei care par s\u0103 nu treac\u0103 prin astfel de probleme. Te-ai cam s\u0103turat s\u0103 stai mereu gata de lupt\u0103&#8230;<br \/>\nAi putea s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 du\u0219mani?<\/p>\n<p>\u021ai-e fric\u0103&#8230; Tu nu-\u021bi dai seama, dar de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd te apropii de cineva pui pe tine o armur\u0103 nev\u0103zut\u0103, care treze\u0219te ne\u00eencrederea celorlal\u021bi. Se simt amenin\u021ba\u021bi de tine \u0219i reac\u021bioneaz\u0103. Tu cum te-ai purta dac\u0103 s-ar apropia de tine cineva \u00eembr\u0103cat \u00eentr-o armur\u0103 medieval\u0103, \u00eenarmat p\u00e2n\u0103-n din\u021bi? Nu ai fugi imediat de el? Sau, luat prin surprindere, nu l-ai c\u0103s\u0103pi imediat, \u00eenainte s\u0103 aib\u0103 timp s\u0103 te atace?<br \/>\n\u021ai-e \u0219i mai fric\u0103&#8230; Tu nu realizezi, dar pentru cei cu sim\u021burile mai dezvoltate ar\u0103\u021bi ca unul care a f\u0103cut pe el de fric\u0103 \u0219i pute. Dac\u0103 s-ar apropia de tine un astfel de personaj, transpirat \u0219i pi\u0219at pe el, tu nu te-ai \u00eendep\u0103rta? Tu nu ai pune biciul pe el ca s\u0103 dispar\u0103 c\u00e2t mai repede din preajma ta?<br \/>\nE\u0219ti epuizat&#8230; Tu nu \u0219tii cum o faci, dar drenezi c\u0103tre tine energia celor din jur f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le ceri voie. \u0218i ei fug imediat de tine sau te pedepsesc pentru c\u0103 se simt brusc epuiza\u021bi \u00een preajma ta. Dac\u0103 ar trece cineva pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine \u0219i \u021bi-ar smulge m\u00e2ncarea din m\u00e2n\u0103, \u021bi-ar fura haina care-\u021bi \u021bine de cald, tu ce ai face? \u0218i po\u021bi s\u0103 faci asta \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fii epuizat, doar ca s\u0103 ai tu mai mult dec\u00e2t cei din jur, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103-i domini.<br \/>\nCople\u0219e\u0219ti&#8230; Con\u0219tient sau nu, \u00eei pui pe to\u021bi cei din jur s\u0103 fac\u0103 lucrurile exact a\u0219a cum vrei tu, fie c\u0103 le vrei binele, fie c\u0103 le vrei r\u0103ul. \u00cei cople\u0219e\u0219ti cu dorin\u021bele \u0219i cu ordinele tale, le \u00eencalci liberul arbitru. Dac\u0103 ai fi obligat, ca o oaie, s\u0103 treci printr-o strung\u0103, dac\u0103 n-ai fi o simpl\u0103 oaie supus\u0103, tu nu te-ai r\u0103zbuna pe cel care te oblig\u0103 s\u0103 faci un anumit drum, indiferent ce te-ar a\u0219tepta la cap\u0103tul acestuia?<br \/>\nE\u0219ti plin de tine&#8230; At\u00e2t de plin \u00eenc\u00e2t \u021bii s\u0103 o spui celorlal\u021bi prin toate gesturile, prin toate cuvintele tale. \u0218i indiferent dac\u0103 ai sau nu calit\u0103\u021bile pe care le anun\u021bi, te por\u021bi plin de tine ca wc-ul de rahat. Pentru unii pu\u021bi dac\u0103 te por\u021bi a\u0219a. \u0218i dac\u0103 \u021bie \u021bi-ar urla cineva \u00een porta-voce \u201euite ce frumoase sunt hainele mele\u201d, tu nu i-ai lua porta-vocea \u0219i ai s\u0103ri cu am\u00e2ndou\u0103 picioarele pe ea ca s\u0103 o faci praf?<br \/>\nNu-\u021bi asumi r\u0103spunderea&#8230; \u0218i, ori de c\u00e2te ori ai gre\u0219it, nu numai c\u0103 nu recuno\u0219ti, dar pui imediat totul \u00een c\u00e2rca altcuiva. Via\u021ba l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine devine un risc pentru to\u021bi cei din jurul t\u0103u, a\u0219a c\u0103 to\u021bi pleac\u0103, uneori dup\u0103 ce se coalizeaz\u0103 \u0219i te scot \u0219i pe tine vinovat pentru ceva ce nu ai f\u0103cut, ca s\u0103 sim\u021bi cum este s\u0103 fii \u021bapul isp\u0103\u0219itor.<\/p>\n<p><em>De ce ai du\u0219mani? Reac\u021bionezi? \u0218tii s\u0103-\u021bi ceri iertare? Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi de la du\u0219mani? E\u0219ti o victim\u0103?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Sfat<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\nFii curajos!<br \/>\n\u00cenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi colectezi singur energie, nu doar c\u00e2t ai nevoie, ci ca s\u0103 dai \u0219i altora din surplus!<br \/>\nRenun\u021b\u0103 la g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 to\u021bi trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 lucrurile a\u0219a cum vrei tu!<br \/>\nNu te l\u0103uda singur, a\u0219teapt\u0103 ca al\u021bii s\u0103 o fac\u0103!<br \/>\nNu acuza pe nimeni de gre\u0219elile pe care le-ai f\u0103cut tu!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a9 Photographer: Nastia1983 | Agency: Dreamstime.com Sunt persoane pe care, dac\u0103 le vezi, sau doar auzi vorbindu-se despre ele, \u021bi se urc\u0103 s\u00e2ngele \u00een cap. 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