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Adeseori, c\u00e2nd suferim dureri sau pierderi de un anumit fel, iertarea pare cople\u0219itoare, prea complicat\u0103 pentru a fi luat\u0103 \u00een calcul. Cum s\u0103 iert\u0103m dac\u0103 nu ni s-a cerut iertare \u0219i nu ni s-au dat explica\u021bii pentru ce ni s-a f\u0103cut? Cum s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la iertare c\u00e2nd sim\u021bim c\u0103 acea persoan\u0103 nu a f\u0103cut nimic ca s\u0103 \u201emerite\u201c iertarea noastr\u0103? De unde s\u0103 \u00eencepem?
\nEfortul de a ierta nu este u\u0219or. Poate c\u0103 deja ai \u00eencercat s\u0103 ier\u021bi pe cineva \u0219i pur \u0219i simplu nu ai putut. Poate c\u0103 ai iertat, iar persoana nu a avut remu\u0219c\u0103ri \u0219i nu \u0219i-a schimbat pozi\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de relele f\u0103cute – \u0219i te-ai trezit retr\u0103g\u00e2ndu-i iertarea.
\nIertarea nu este un lucru u\u0219or pentru niciunul dintre noi \u0219i nu folose\u0219te la nimic s\u0103 minimiz\u0103m complexitatea actului iert\u0103rii. Cel mai bine este s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim iertarea \u00een \u00eenghi\u021bituri mai mici \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencepem de acolo de unde suntem. Spune povestea at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t ai nevoie. Nume\u0219te r\u0103nile p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu te mai \u00een\u021beap\u0103 inima. Ofer\u0103 iertarea atunci c\u00e2nd desprinderea ta de trecut va fi f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eentoarcere. Reconciliaz\u0103 sau renun\u021b\u0103 la acea rela\u021bie, dup\u0103 cum \u00ee\u021bi este voia.
\nS\u0103 ier\u021bi nu este u\u0219or, dar este calea c\u0103tre vindecare. Nu a fost u\u0219or pentru Nelson Mandela s\u0103 petreac\u0103 dou\u0103zeci \u0219i \u0219apte de ani \u00een \u00eenchisoare, dar c\u00e2nd oamenii \u00eemi spun ce risip\u0103 a fost le spun c\u0103 nu, nu a fost nici o risip\u0103. I-a luat dou\u0103zeci \u0219i \u0219apte de ani s\u0103 se transforme dintr-un t\u00e2n\u0103r radical furios, neiert\u0103tor \u00een simbolul reconcilierii, al iert\u0103rii \u0219i al onoarei care s\u0103 poat\u0103 scoate \u021bara din ruinele r\u0103zboiului civil \u0219i ale auto-distrugerii.
\nSuferin\u021ba noastr\u0103, durerea noastr\u0103 \u0219i pierderile noastre au puterea de a ne transforma. Nu \u00eentotdeauna pare drept, nici nu este u\u0219or, dar un bine enorm urmeaz\u0103 marii triste\u021bi. S\u0103 ascult\u0103m cu inima…<\/p>\n
Domnul ne iart\u0103 necondi\u021bionat<\/strong><\/em> un text de Desmond M. Tutu<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Adeseori, c\u00e2nd suferim dureri sau pierderi de un anumit fel, iertarea pare cople\u0219itoare, prea complicat\u0103 pentru a fi luat\u0103 \u00een calcul. Cum s\u0103 iert\u0103m dac\u0103 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,3],"tags":[29,22],"class_list":["post-398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-privitor","category-spiritual","tag-cultura","tag-spiritualitate","has_thumb"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9kw6W-6q","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=398"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":401,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398\/revisions\/401"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nA\u0219a c\u0103
\nHo\u021bul de pe cruce va muri pe cruce
\n\u00cens\u0103 iertarea \u00eei va elibera spiritul
\nDar dac\u0103 tu \u0219i cu mine, v\u0103z\u00e2nd cum cre\u0219te
\nmormanul pierderilor dureroase
\nVom mai muri de o mie de ori p\u00e2n\u0103 la moarte?
\nT\u00e2njind dup\u0103 r\u0103zbunare, vom muri sufoca\u021bi de setea ei?
\nVa fi furia ce ne umple rugul pe care vom arde?
\nNe vom poticni de fiecare obstacol?
\n\u0218i vom r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een capcana mizeriei?
\nSau o s\u0103 prindem ocazia de a evada
\nurm\u00e2nd calea acolo unde merge ea
\nDincolo de \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u0219i remu\u0219c\u0103ri
\nAsta este \u0219ansa noastr\u0103
\nPrinde \u0219ansa asta
\n\u0218i evadeaz\u0103<\/p>\n