{"id":861,"date":"2018-02-27T06:02:32","date_gmt":"2018-02-27T06:02:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=861"},"modified":"2019-02-06T10:40:27","modified_gmt":"2019-02-06T10:40:27","slug":"sa-vorbim-despre-lucruri-mai-greu-de-acceptat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/?p=861","title":{"rendered":"S\u0103 vorbim despre lucruri mai greu de acceptat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/event.2performant.com\/events\/click?ad_type=product_store&#038;aff_code=dec48ac66&#038;campaign_unique=9a6f02fef&#038;unique=e43ba24aa\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/gawande-204x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"204\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-864\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/gawande-204x300.jpg 204w, https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/gawande.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 204px) 100vw, 204px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nO carte cu care m-am luptat la propriu, pe care am tradus-o \u00een timp ce m\u0103 apropiam de un moment mai dificil \u00een via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i care m-a ajutat foarte mult. Dar o carte greu de acceptat, \u00eentr-un fel, chiar de la titlu, care induce o spaim\u0103 greu de st\u0103p\u00e2nit celor afla\u021bi \u00eenc\u0103 pe la \u00eenceputul dezvolt\u0103rii personale \u0219i care sunt obseda\u021bi de moarte.<br \/>\nDac\u0103 sunte\u021bi medic, psiholog, terapeut, consilier de dezvoltare personal\u0103, cadru medical de orice fel, este o lectur\u0103 necesar\u0103. Nu este simplu de negociat cu omul foarte b\u0103tr\u00e2n, neajutorat, cu omul muribund, \u00een a\u0219a fel \u00eenc\u00e2t \u0219i lui s\u0103-i fie bine, \u0219i celui care-l are \u00een grij\u0103 s\u0103-i fie mai u\u0219or.<br \/>\nAutorul este chirurg, n\u0103scut din p\u0103rin\u021bi ce au emigrat din India, a\u0219a c\u0103 are un contact direct cu dou\u0103 spa\u021bii culturale \u00een care lcururile se fac cu totul \u0219i cu totul diferit, de la respect \u00een Orient la absen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i team\u0103 \u00een Occident.<br \/>\nA\u0219a c\u0103 reu\u0219e\u0219te s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 lucrurile dintr-o cu totul alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103, orientat mai degrab\u0103 c\u0103tre ce poate s\u0103 ofere via\u021ba persoanei aflate \u00een dificultate \u0219i nu c\u0103tre cum fugim de inevitabila moarte.<br \/>\nSfaturi dure \u00een carte \u0219i pentru cei afla\u021bi \u00een dificultate, \u0219i pentru apar\u021bin\u0103torii lor, cel mai important put\u00e2nd fi rezumat astfel: dac\u0103 nu mai sunt \u0219anse reale de salvare, dac\u0103 totul este experimental \u0219i presupune internarea p\u00e2n\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul zilelor, nu ar fi mai bine s\u0103 accep\u021bi tratamentul paleativ \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti aproape ca un om s\u0103n\u0103tos, bucur\u00e2ndu-te de tine, de cei din jur, de ceea ce faci, p\u00e2n\u0103&#8230;<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/event.2performant.com\/events\/click?ad_type=product_store&#038;aff_code=dec48ac66&#038;campaign_unique=9a6f02fef&#038;unique=e43ba24aa\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/cumpara.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"486\" height=\"164\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-877\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n&#8222;Capacit\u0103\u021bile \u0219tiin\u021bei moderne au afectat profund cursul vie\u021bii umane. Oamenii tr\u0103iesc mai mult \u0219i mai bine dec\u00e2t \u00een oricare alt\u0103 epoc\u0103 istoric\u0103. Dar progresul \u0219tiin\u021bific a transformat procesul \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirii \u0219i al mor\u021bii \u00eentr-un experiment medical condus de profesioni\u0219ti. Iar noi, cei din lumea medical\u0103, ne-am dovedit alarmant de nepreg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru a\u0219a ceva. Acest adev\u0103r a fost ascuns, iar etapele finale ale vie\u021bii au devenit tot mai pu\u021bin familiare oamenilor.<br \/>\nNu mai departe de 1945, cele mai multe decese aveau loc acas\u0103. Prin anii 1980, doar 17% se mai petreceau astfel. Cei care mureau totu\u0219i acas\u0103 p\u0103\u021beau asta pentru c\u0103 moartea lor era prea brusc\u0103 pentru a mai ajunge la spital \u2013 infarct, atac cerebral sau traumatisme violente \u2013, sau pentru c\u0103 erau mult prea izola\u021bi pentru a primi ajutorul cuiva. Nu doar \u00een Statele Unite, ci \u00een toat\u0103 lumea industrializat\u0103, experien\u021ba b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bii avansate \u0219i a mor\u021bii a trecut c\u0103tre spitale \u0219i azile. C\u00e2nd am devenit medic, am trecut de cealalt\u0103 parte a u\u0219ilor spitalului \u0219i, chiar dac\u0103 crescusem cu doi medici drept p\u0103rin\u021bi, tot ceea ce vedeam era nou pentru mine. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103, \u00eenainte nu mai v\u0103zusem pe nimeni murind, iar c\u00e2nd am f\u0103cut-o a fost un \u0219oc. Nu din cauz\u0103 c\u0103 m\u0103 f\u0103cea s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 sunt \u0219i eu muritor. Cumva nu am ajuns la acest g\u00e2nd, chiar dac\u0103 am v\u0103zut murind oameni de v\u00e2rsta mea. Aveam un halat alb pe mine, ei aveau halate de pacien\u021bi pe ei. Nu puteam s\u0103-mi imaginez situa\u021bia de pe alt\u0103 pozi\u021bie. Puteam, totu\u0219i, s\u0103-mi imaginez familia la locul ei. Am v\u0103zut numeroase rude \u2013 so\u021bia, p\u0103rin\u021bii \u0219i copiii \u2013, trec\u00e2nd prin boli serioase, care le amenin\u021bau via\u021ba. Chiar \u0219i \u00een cele mai dificile situa\u021bii, medicina i-a pus pe picioare. \u0218ocul meu a fost acela de a vedea cum medicina nu-i pune pe oameni pe picoare. Teoretic \u0219tiam c\u0103 pacien\u021bii mei pot muri, dar fiecare caz p\u0103rea o infrac\u021biune, ca \u0219i cum regulile dup\u0103 care jucam ar fi fost \u00eenc\u0103lcate. Nu \u0219tiu ce joc credeam c\u0103 joc, dar \u0219tiam c\u0103 mereu c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103m.&#8221; Atul Gawande<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/event.2performant.com\/events\/click?ad_type=product_store&#038;aff_code=dec48ac66&#038;campaign_unique=9a6f02fef&#038;unique=e43ba24aa\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\nAtul Gawande<br \/>\n<em>S\u0103 vorbim despre moarte<\/em><\/a><br \/>\nEditura Litera<br \/>\nTraducere de Vlad T. Popescu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O carte cu care m-am luptat la propriu, pe care am tradus-o \u00een timp ce m\u0103 apropiam de un moment mai dificil \u00een via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[16],"class_list":["post-861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-privitor","tag-carte","has_thumb"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9kw6W-dT","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/861","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=861"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/861\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":878,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/861\/revisions\/878"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=861"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=861"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sfat.info.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=861"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}